Friday, January 3, 2014
Five Minute Friday - Fight
Really, we are going to keep doing this? Are we are going to keep rehashing that which we clearly see from different perspectives. Are we going to continue to attack each other because we have different opinions. I understand that we can't sweep our fight under the rug as if it never happened. I realize that our relationship has been changed by this repeated exchange of angry words. But maybe, could we possibly try our best to put it on the shelf and leave it alone. Let it be. And then, could we start the process of working towards healing our relationship? Could we acknowledge that all were hurt, that things were said that wounded our very souls, but that because we love each other, we are willing to heal. Willing to at least attempt to find common ground. And then, most importantly, could we work together to find a way to communicate that does not involve fighting. Could we give this fight to God and let Him heal us? Could we trust that He is bigger than a fight? Here's me saying, "I'm done fighting." I don't want to hurt you. I never did. I don't want to fight. I'm done.